Friends, I will be focusing on India – that’s priority for me. Honor Killing - In simple words, it means the killing of people for the sake of a family’s honor. Well, reading the definition one would feel that it is OK to practice honor killing. After all, saving the honor of the family is the utmost duty of the family members. But, do we really realize what exactly is the honor for the family? The outburst of frustration-anger-ego is given the name of honor killing resulting in the deaths of innocent young people in our country. Sometimes I feel that the correct definition of ‘Honor Killing’ is now limited to ‘Marrying/Loving outside the caste, walking out of an arranged marriage, remarriage’ – HONOR of a family is just defined by these.
People need to understand what is the honor for their family - It is simply the happiness and smile of the family, the sight of the family members living happily should ideally be the honor of a family; The reasons for which the honor killings are happening is not in the name of family, it is in the name of individuals.India being such a great developing country – making fun of the traditions and customs of its neighbors, should rethink now.
Racism in Australia, ruthless rules in Islamic countries – we do notice these and complain; but are WE good enough to point fingers at them?People have already started loving on the conditions of money and position in society; if we add another condition of religion and fear here, then love will no longer be related to the heart, but it will be a mind thing – completely. Let’s do our bid to prevent this. Let’s grow up and try preventing this evil by spreading the right word among people.
Thursday, August 26, 2010
Monday, May 31, 2010
WHO AM I???
For the past so many years (read as 24 years), I have been involved in solving the riddle ‘Who I AM?’. The answer to the seemingly easy question is not a complete one, still I will share it; the answer is not a global one - it is a mere perception of mine, yet I will share it…
I can respond to the five senses - see, smell, listen, eat and feel, which qualifies me to call myself a human being. Now, let’s shift the focus to the deeds that I have done. If my actions they aren’t or weren’t HUMANE (lets not consider future now, NO ONE HAS SEEN IT), do I still qualify to be called as a human being? Left to you to answer this…oz my answer is - NO. Your true and strong conscience will always help you get this NO as the answer.
I have not done anything majorly good, so I am just a THING. A THING which has hurted others for self motive; a thing which has blamed others.
Suggestions - it comes for free and I (WE) freely distribute it. Why can’t we apply those pricely suggestions to oursleves and see how REALLY it works?
Pain - it is the most dreaded thing for most of us, but still why do we give it to others when we are, ACTUALLY, not for a second, ready to take it?
Mistakes - why is it that we put our fear of failure upon others too, and pressurize them, ULTIMATELY, to fail?
Forgive - why is it sooo very difficult for us to forgive others, when we always always want it?
Apologize - well, that is something I have learnt to do now. But, still why it is tougher to apologize than to forgive?
Forget - why is it easy to forget important things, and NOT forget unimportant baseless painful things in life?
These are some of the few WHYs that I have been excavating, just to see, if I get some remains or clues out of my own life!!!
I can respond to the five senses - see, smell, listen, eat and feel, which qualifies me to call myself a human being. Now, let’s shift the focus to the deeds that I have done. If my actions they aren’t or weren’t HUMANE (lets not consider future now, NO ONE HAS SEEN IT), do I still qualify to be called as a human being? Left to you to answer this…oz my answer is - NO. Your true and strong conscience will always help you get this NO as the answer.
I have not done anything majorly good, so I am just a THING. A THING which has hurted others for self motive; a thing which has blamed others.
Suggestions - it comes for free and I (WE) freely distribute it. Why can’t we apply those pricely suggestions to oursleves and see how REALLY it works?
Pain - it is the most dreaded thing for most of us, but still why do we give it to others when we are, ACTUALLY, not for a second, ready to take it?
Mistakes - why is it that we put our fear of failure upon others too, and pressurize them, ULTIMATELY, to fail?
Forgive - why is it sooo very difficult for us to forgive others, when we always always want it?
Apologize - well, that is something I have learnt to do now. But, still why it is tougher to apologize than to forgive?
Forget - why is it easy to forget important things, and NOT forget unimportant baseless painful things in life?
These are some of the few WHYs that I have been excavating, just to see, if I get some remains or clues out of my own life!!!
Wednesday, May 19, 2010
...love undefined...
Love is what
I've failed to get
Love is watt
I yelled at fate...
Love is that,
I got from her
Love is not this
That I failed to return...
To love one self,
I could do no fair
To just love her
I refused so clear
Love is not,
Not meant for me
I aint no true
True u r to me...
I want some hurt
Cuz I did no good to you
Please punish me
Coz my love aint true...
I've failed to get
Love is watt
I yelled at fate...
Love is that,
I got from her
Love is not this
That I failed to return...
To love one self,
I could do no fair
To just love her
I refused so clear
Love is not,
Not meant for me
I aint no true
True u r to me...
I want some hurt
Cuz I did no good to you
Please punish me
Coz my love aint true...
Tuesday, February 16, 2010
Chocolates
Chocolates
Chocolates are something that everybody likes,
Light OR dark or even if they are of Whites;
Ingredients they have of so many kind,
But, only one is main and the rest just bind.
Chocolates are good as well as bad,
We eat them when happy or sad;
But, impact they have so great in life,
Wonders they do, can’t be done with a knife!
Chocolates can bring smiles,
To every face at once,
Coz, they carry the message of love,
To family, friends and all Dear ones.
Chocolates and life,
Have many things to share;
Even if they are dark,
Still they are always there.
Many different flavors,
Will always be for sure,
Still they always convey,
That we do care
Chocolates are something that everybody likes,
Light OR dark or even if they are of Whites;
Ingredients they have of so many kind,
But, only one is main and the rest just bind.
Chocolates are good as well as bad,
We eat them when happy or sad;
But, impact they have so great in life,
Wonders they do, can’t be done with a knife!
Chocolates can bring smiles,
To every face at once,
Coz, they carry the message of love,
To family, friends and all Dear ones.
Chocolates and life,
Have many things to share;
Even if they are dark,
Still they are always there.
Many different flavors,
Will always be for sure,
Still they always convey,
That we do care
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